Frequently Asked Questions
Ceremonies written and held for who you are—no scripts, no doctrine.
From full custom weddings to elopements, vow renewals, and ritual design, everything is shaped in conversation with you.
About the Work
Are you a religious officiant?
No. My ceremonies are non-religious and free from doctrine. I’m comfortable working with spiritual or interfaith couples and can thoughtfully acknowledge multiple traditions without centering any single belief system.
Do you work with queer, non-traditional, or later-in-life couples?
Absolutely. Many of the couples I work with are queer, interfaith, blending families, or choosing marriage later in life. You don’t need to explain or justify your love here.
Pricing & Offerings
How much do your services cost?
I offer three ceremony options:
- The Quiet Yes — $600, for elopements and intimate ceremonies
- The Hearthside Ceremony — $900, for a fully custom ceremony
- The Story-Held Ceremony — $1,300, for story-forward ceremonies and custom rituals
What’s included in the price?
All ceremonies include planning conversation(s), custom writing, and officiation on your wedding day. Scope varies by package and is discussed clearly up front.
How do we choose between offerings?
Think about how much collaboration you want.
If you’re looking for a straightforward ceremony with light customization, a simpler offering may be the right fit. If you want something more collaborative—with personal stories, ritual, or blended-family elements—you may want a more involved option.
If you’re unsure, that’s completely normal. We’ll talk it through together and find the right fit for your ceremony and your budget.
Why do custom ceremonies cost more than “just officiating”?
You’re not hiring me for twenty minutes at the altar. You’re hiring me for the listening, writing, preparation, and presence required to hold a meaningful ceremony.
Ceremony Content
Do you help us write our vows?
Yes. I provide guidance, prompts, and structure so your vows feel honest and speakable—without scripting your voice.
Can we include rituals or readings?
Yes, as long as they feel authentic to you. I’m happy to include meaningful rituals, readings, or symbolic elements rooted in your values.
Logistics & Expectations
Do you require sobriety during the ceremony?
Yes. I require that couples and wedding parties be sober for the ceremony itself so the moment is held with clarity and care.
Do you attend rehearsals?
Rehearsal attendance is included in the Story-Held Ceremony. For other packages, it can be added if helpful.
What if family members have strong opinions?
I honor families, but my responsibility is to the couple. I don’t mediate family conflict or negotiate ceremony content with people outside the partnership.
Process & Fit
What if we don’t know exactly what we want?
That’s completely fine. Many couples begin with a feeling rather than a clear vision. Part of my role is helping you find language for what you already know.
How do we get started?
Reach out through my inquiry form to schedule a conversation and see if we’re a good fit.
Ceremony is a threshold.
I take that responsibility seriously.